The best questions to ask your Guides, intuitive, psychic or medium result in answers that encourage your active role and which empower YOU. Instead of leaving you in a passive role (focusing on other people, waiting for things to happen, or living in fear) empowering questions allow you to have the most value and the most information for the time you have to spend with an intuitive.<\/p>\n
These questions keep the Focus<\/em> on<\/em> YOU.\u00a0 If you make yourself<\/em> the object of your questions, you keep your true power of choice and change which can truly transform your life from within.\u00a0 Any questions that focus solely on other people or situations out of your control will soon have you spinning your wheels and losing ground.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Do you want to be the main character in the story of your life, or do you always want to depend on other people or forces out of your influence?\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Focusing on yourself empowers you.<\/p>\n Avoid yes or no questions<\/strong><\/em>.\u00a0 No simple yes or no answer\u00a0 will give you the information that you need and only gives you the tiniest and most ineffective view of what is really going on.\u00a0 These questions only lead to more questions.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 For example, knowing whether someone will call you gives you absolutely NO information about the potentials involved or active role you could take in the relationship.<\/p>\n Avoid WHAT SHOULD I DO? questions<\/em><\/strong>.\u00a0 The purpose of an empowering, healthy, intuitive reading is to allow you to make your own choices and tap into your own wisdom. Your intuitive counsellor\/psychic may give you their opinion, and you may ask, but remember, your “guides” are here to help you navigate the map, but NOT to make decisions for you. You are the driver.<\/em><\/p>\n Avoid WHO, WHERE and WHY questions<\/em><\/strong>.\u00a0\u00a0 Getting a detail without focusing on your true power in a situation is like having a car with a full tank of gas and no direction to go in. Not only that, but details could cause you to stop taking actions that build the very results you want to achieve. If you knew a man in a blue ice cream truck meant to give you a sack of money, you might frantically start searching for the man and the truck without knowing that the ice cream truck had been painted recently, or you might think and try so hard that you alter the natural flow of events that would bring this event to you.<\/p>\n Avoid focusing only on WHEN questions<\/strong><\/em>:\u00a0\u00a0 You have the ability to make choices, use your free will and alter your course. So too, does everyone else around you. Knowing what your options are more important because without your empowerment, “when” doesn’t tell you very much – worse it puts you in the position of waiting around instead of claiming your power. You can speed things up, slow things down and change the path based on your choices.<\/p>\n The most empowering questions to ask are WHAT can I, HOW do I, and SHOW ME questions<\/strong><\/em>.\u00a0 This focus gives you the maximum useful information and puts you firmly in the driver’s seat.\u00a0 These questions put the focus on you instead of others, since you cannot control the choices or reactions of other people: Instead of:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u201cWhy did my girlfriend do this to me?\u201d <\/em>you can ask,\u00a0 \u201cWhat can I understand about this situation to help my girlfriend and I build a positive connection instead of this?\u201d<\/em> <\/strong><\/p>\n Instead of:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 “Should I put my father in a nursing home?”<\/em>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 you could ask,\u00a0\u00a0 “What choices do I have in this situation, what do I need to know that I\u2019m not seeing?”<\/strong><\/em> or \u201cShow me what to consider in order to make the best choice for my dad and my family.”<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n Instead of:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 “When is my soul mate coming?”<\/em>\u00a0\u00a0 you could ask,\u00a0 “Show me how to open up to a true relationship and create the best circumstances for meeting my partner.”<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n Being specific is the BEST way to ask, HOW can I , WHAT can I , and SHOW ME questions.<\/strong><\/em>\u00a0\u00a0 Instead of vague questions like,\u00a0 “Will I be get job?”\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 ask,\u00a0 “I’m looking for a job in the next 6 months, what are my options and how do I go about making the most successful search?\u201d<\/p>\n Some great How, What, Show Me questions<\/em><\/strong>\u00a0 can help you tackle even concepts that are hard to define for yourself, such as the direction you want to take in your life or career, or how to heal core issues and become happier:<\/p>\n \u201cShow me how to tap into my real passion and find what I care about?\u201d\u00a0 \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cHow can I invite more happiness into my life?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n \u00a0\u201cWhat can I do right now to get a better feel for who I am?\u201d\u00a0 \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n \u00a0\u201cWhat can I learn about my spiritual gifts?\u201d\u00a0 \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cHow can I take the best care of myself in this situation?\u201d\u00a0 \ufffd\ufffd<\/strong><\/p>\n \u00a0\u201cShow me what I can be cautious of?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" The best questions to ask your Guides, intuitive, psychic or medium result in answers that encourage your active role and which empower YOU. 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\nInstead of:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 “Will Roger call me?”<\/em>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 you could ask, “How can I relate to Roger and improve my communication with him?”<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n