I used to wonder what all the fuss was about with people talking about \u2018loving themselves\u2019. Like how do we even do that? When focusing on our chakra system, it\u2019s easier to assess whether or not we are allowing this powerful vibration into our being. Let\u2019s take a snapshot to see just how powerful love is and can transform us and our relationships.<\/p>\n
When our Crown<\/strong> Chakra<\/strong> is merged with love, it transforms our thinking. We think loving thoughts rather than judgmental or negative ones. Our usual thinking might steer us to what is lacking in any given situation. Our love-based thinking steers us to not only what is going right, but towards how we can see a situation differently. Thereby, we attract solutions and create a more holistic resolve. Over time, our reactive thinking softens and solution-focused thinking quickens. This is great for our relationships as it works in both the short term and long term at how we relate.<\/p>\n When our Third Eye Chakra is merged with love we see everyone with loving eyes. We also see the higher truth of the part people have to play in our lives, from the position of love. This is also how Spirit sees us. Truth is based on the reality that everyone and everything is here to assist our consciousness to evolve. Everything is part of this love. When we can see this, then our spiritual vision sees beyond fear-based illusions.<\/p>\n When love imbues our Ear Chakras we actually hear people\u2019s gratitude and we are able to let love in. Our Ear Chakras are responsible for being receptive in general. So how receptive are you for letting love in? We can become more receptive by changing our rejection of compliments as a start. Saying a simple, \u201cThank you\u201d is enough to make a start at letting love in. When we are listening from a loving space we don\u2019t indulge other\u2019s fear based realities. This only disempowers others and drains our energy. It\u2019s okay to be real with people and say, \u201cI hear you are struggling, what\u2019s your action plan?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Our Throat Chakra awareness helps us to become awake to the parts of ourselves that need to be heard. We have many different parts of our psyche. When we love these parts, we accelerate our connection to our Higher Self. We also are able to support ourselves with loving Spiritual Support rather than become co-dependent on another. Relationships between adults that are more like a parent\/child are disempowering at best and abusive at worst. You can ask yourself what your vulnerable part needs, what its purpose is to teach you and ask your Spiritual helpers to send support to this part of yourself. This will transform and enlighten this aspect of your psyche and you will feel more whole as a result. You will also notice when another person is taking responsibility for their own needs or being too dependent on you.<\/p>\n When we are connected to the love inside our hearts, our Heart Chakra helps us to feel compassion for others. Feeling compassion means that we also believe in other\u2019s own connection to their spiritual support system to sustain them infinitely. This is a very powerful realization. We know that no matter how much they feel they are not loved, they are. The heart is also responsible for helping us let down any walls we have put up to guard our hearts. The reality is that as we shut others out, we shut off from our own spiritual connection. Opening our hearts is imperative in sustaining our own life force.<\/p>\n When our Solar plexus and the frequency of love unite, we value ourselves. We do not take on other people\u2019s responsibilities as we know that is not loving. Caretaking others only take away their lessons for their own learning. As we refocus and look further towards our reason for being, our life\u2019s purpose and the power of the present moment in being our authentic selves. If there are people holding us back, tearing us down, abusing or mistreating us, we move on with love. Our love directed choices say \u2018Yes\u2019 to who we are rather than \u2018No\u2019 to others. When we value ourselves, we move on when we know it is in our highest good. We know we are not really leaving someone behind. Instead, we are moving towards more loving relationships. We create the space for it. We feel the love of Spirit streaming through in the gap that is often felt in between relationships.<\/p>\n