>Share this Article on Facebook<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\nWhat many don\u2019t know is that passion and sexuality begin in the mind first, the brain and the imagination are key. The genesis of great lovemaking is the nuance and the sensuality is the honey that raises the attention of your intended. The slow, light touch on the cheek or the on the back of the neck, moving in ever so close where lips almost touch but don\u2019t, a carefully placed whisper in a sensual low tone, these are nuances which ignite the wanton flames. You see the brain and body respond to anticipation and the slower the feed, the better. The longer it takes, the more heightened the experience. Use your imagination and get creative. A body drenched in oils and pleasant aromas is a powerful aphrodisiac. You can feed each other sensually, you can employ safe bondage and blindfolds, toys and vibrators and you can even delve into tantric sex. Tantra is the exchange of sexual energy without ever touching your intended. There are some great books on the practice of Tantra if you are interested. Remember to keep it interesting and be open to new sensual experiences but always practice safe sex and be careful who you engage with. In sexual experiences trust is a key component of a safe and fulfilling sexual interlude.<\/p>\n
Sexuality heightens chemicals in the body which also drive the experience. Did you know that love and romance trigger the \u201chappy chemicals\u201d of the brain? <\/p>\n
They are:<\/p>\n
Serotonin which is essential for overall well-being and a restful night\u2019s sleep and Serotonin is a neurotransmitter, involved in the transmission of nerve impulse; <\/p>\n
Endorphins are the brains painkiller and are three times more potent than Morphine; <\/p>\n
Dopamine makes people more talkative and excitable. It affects brain processes that control movement, emotional response, and ability to experience pleasure and pain.<\/p>\n
Oxytocin is the love hormone\/neurotransmitter which is responsible for relaxation, trust and psychological stability, pro-social behaviors and emotional responses. It is also know as the hug hormones since it is associated with feel good experiences.<\/p>\n
These happy brain chemicals trigger emotional reactions to your love interest and are paramount to a powerful romantic interlude. If you want a great sex life, keep your emotions healthy and your body functioning optimally. Good nutrition, meditation, yoga or Thai Chi, plenty of sleep, exercise and living as stress free as possible will not only add to your sexuality but will optimize every area of your life.<\/p>\n
The importance of who you take into your bed and body cannot be emphasized enough. Since sexuality begins in the mind, you need to have a real connection with the person you intend to sleep with IF you want a fulfilling encounter. Taking a stranger into your bed is not only dangerous but it is usually not very satisfying.<\/p>\n