By Gertrude: Silence speaks louder than words. It is still a form of communication. Is someone in your life giving you the silent treatment? Or are there other relationships you have disconnected. Stopped contact.
Silence tells us so much more about that person. The main one being, really showing who they are. Now, that doesn’t mean they do it deliberately. It doesn’t mean they are a bad person. It just means they are not ready to share what is deep in their heart. Right now the situation is asking for kindness and consideration.
Not everyone is aware of triggers, that they have been triggered. Silence is also a form of defense. Rather than using attack as a defense, they choose to retreat. Silence is also time for us to reflect. To regain and soulful and spiritual enthusiasm. Finding a place where your inner peace, well being and happiness are fulfilled.
Utilize this energy to your advantage. However, when we are being given the silent treatment from someone we love, it can trigger many emotions. So right now, you may be going through an evolution too. It can be a very painful experience being ignored.
As you walk forward from this negative feeling, understand that you aren’t the reason. This is a sign that you are being asked to detach and be inspired to enter a new phase of your life. We can turn the power and energy from this experience into courage and strength. It gives us the energy and drive to explore our dreams. Your dreams can come true. Right now, they need a realistic plan to enable that outcome to happen.
In the situation where you have had to extract yourself from toxic family energy, this is your time to heal if you have had to use silence as a protection. Forgiveness is always the answer. We cannot heal without forgiveness. It also doesn’t mean that we allow that person or people back into our lives.
Silence can also be used in the sense of loyalty. So if someone is silent right now you are also being reminded that loyalty is an essential oil to any significant relationship we have. Especially the one we have with ourselves. It’s important to be loyal to yourself first and foremost. Be driven by your ethics. Your core sense of fairness which creates the code for karmic fairness and karmic creation.
This is also a special time as you are also shedding your skin. Like the divine celestial serpent who revitalizes and replenishes. Leaving behind that which is no longer needed. For your higher good. So as difficult as it is, silence is a comfort to us and creates healthy boundaries within ourselves.
If you are really struggling right now with the silent treatment, please know that you are supported. Right now you are going through the painful stage of evolution.
Growing pains. Right now you are developing and you are meant to be identifying and eliminating what is no longer in your best interests. A no choice transition. The space that you create from the breath of fresh air spring clean in your life. Will make room for new projects and expand your life. Opening up golden doors of opportunity.
It is perfectly ok to have feelings of being overwhelmed. Saddened by heart. Having recurring thoughts and silent conversations in our head. If you are reading this, you are now about to take a calculated risk by stepping into the unknown. While this period feels like a free fall it is also an exciting time to imagine and prepare for where you land.
How do you want that to look? Because it’s also time that you begin the investment in you. Energy isn’t stored, the cosmos creates more than enough energy for everyone. Harness that energy and apply it to yourself like a balm.
The elixir you are creating to nurture yourself, to water your own lawn is ready. Time to apply the wisdom of your experiences and put in half the energy to you that you do for others. You will create that emotional and life balance. We aren’t meant to be happy with a stress free life.
We are meant to be organically connected to our soul map. What you meant to learn in your life finds you. Much of all of this we were meant to experience. This is also a time where you are being given the affirmation of ‘You’ve Got This!” and you really have.
Take all the time you need for yourself, be kind and comfort yourself. You aren’t waiting for anyone to bring you a bouquet of flowers. Right now you are busy nurturing your own seeds and garden.
If you are having a hard time right now with this, please call me. I’d love to see what insight we can authentically create together. For you to have your best outcome.
Love and Light,
Gertrude
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